We'll all miss him, but we'll never forget him.
He seemed to know everything there was to know about music. He could hear something once, and it would be locked in his vault forever.
Our band has a revolving list of participants. Depending on availability and desire to play, we would draft individuals with talent and a passion to play. I did not use the term musician because a few of us are just musical apprentices, passionate to participate in the fun of performing. Joe could be demanding at times, he was passionate about our performances and took each seriously - another oxymoron … serious/jug band music. But it was true, Joe was both passionate and serious about our music.
Back to It's A Wonderful Life....we are all linked one to another. Joe's linking me into Senate and one on one to others at Montclair State led me to be inspired to travel to Europe, obtaining a grant for my Master's degree, seek a short career at MSC, followed by a career in travel and 2 wives later happily ensconsed near to Joe's genealogical hallowed ground in South Central PA. I could go on and on but suffice it to say that what we say or what we do lives on 100s of years after us. Had it not been for my knowing and loving Joe Bell I would have been, at least, different. I believe I would have been poorer in spirit without Joe and others like him that I have known over my lifetime that took the time to share something of themselves with me.
We were friends for nearly forty years, and he played an important role in my life. Where can I begin? At the beginning I suppose.
But Joe was a mentor to the band from the beginning. So, when half way through a two week engagement at Gerde's Folk City I came down with mononucleosis, Joe was the logical person to take my place. By the end of the 60's he was the Birdies guitarist, and remained a Birdy to the end. Joe was always self-deprecating about his abilities on guitar, but the truth was that his playing was the engine that drove the band's sound and style. No rehearsal could be productive without Joe. He could figure out any chord progression for a new song, and had his hand in every arrangement. I know that the band meant a great deal to him, as it does to me. I guess what makes the Birdies so special is the fact that it's really like a family; a core group of long-time friends, making music together and having fun. Could it get any better than that? To me Joe was the father figure in that family. Even when arthritis stole from him the ability to play guitar, his importance in the band never diminished, he simply concentrated on his resonant bass vocals that anchored the harmony, and growled out some fine, driving lead vocals.
I really looked forward to this trip and I think he did too. In the evening, after we had spent the day at the museums, we would have a nice meal at the inn (Joe always savored a good meal!), and then we'd go back to one of our rooms and talk the evening away. We'd talk about every topic imaginable, just like we did in dorm rooms and apartments when we first became friends: art, books, politics, movies, what our families and friends were up to, plans for the future. This year Joe couldn't make the trip at our usual time because of the chemotherapy and radiation therapy he was receiving, but he had every intention of simply postponing the trip until later in the year. We had no doubt that this would happen.
I remember Jane Fonda lived right down the street. Anyway, it was a
Friday and we got an itch to head down to Mexico for a few mindless days. We
took my '69 VW bug, Orange Marmalade, and hit Tijuana in no time flat. A
sinister guy on a street corner took one look at me and said, "Meester...you
sure look like you could use some pooosy." We left town fast, trying to avoid all the Mexican kids jumping in front of my the car. We ended up taking the road down
the Baja heading toward Ensenada. There were no gas stations or places to
stop to eat. We talked for hours and listened to a country station coming somewhere
out of Texas, El Paso, I think.
want is one of you do do n do do do . Just a few chords, but the way he played! (The way to a man’s heart is through his ears..). Thinking now… I think he got this tune from some friend named Michael who was in a band back then called maybe ‘the little flowers’ ( I think they were from Bucks County, but I recall they were playing in Greenwich Village at the time). I know he loved this guy’s music totally.
I heard the news today, oh boy: "Tomorrow afternoon we will have a special assembly...a music presentation by the Dirdy Birdies Jug Band...winners of WABC's Big Break contest - featuring our very own Mr. Bell!". 
|
Home
| About Us
| Fun Stuff
| Scrap Book
| FAQ
| Links
| Calendar
| Other Stuff
Last Updated: August 16, 2005 |